I'd like to join this thread if I may.
I'm 39, my husband is 35. We both work from home, I work in the creative industries and enjoy what I do, so I'm not so concerned about early retirement as such (it would be easy for us to go part time in the future too).
We do want to be financially independent as soon as possible though.
Here's an outline of our current situation:
We moved from the UK to Portugal two years ago. We can see ourselves living here permanently. My husband brought his job with him, is employed and works remotely. I quite my full time job when we moved and have been freelancing since then, as well as renovating our house.
Our household income is fairly low at the moment. My husband's job nets about £1600 a month (he had to take a small hours cut during covid, but is expecting a pay rise this year), I've been bringing in about £500 a month.
I'm aiming to build up my freelance business this year until it's a full time income.
Our household expenditure, excluding mortgage, averages out to about €700 per month (that's absolutely everything - groceries, car maintenance, vet, council tax, insurance, internet, mobiles etc etc).
Mortgage is £1000 per month (we're overpaying). We have about £180 left on it.
No other debts except student loans (mine 12k, his 10k, but I'm not currently repaying anything).
We have a good life here - a bit of land so I'm starting to grow food and keep poultry. We're very thrifty, do a lot of DIY and buy everything second hand where appropriate (i.e. not things like sheets and mattresses). We have two old, reliable cars that we bought for cash.
We're not parsimonious though - we love to eat well so we won't buy cheap, intensively-reared meat. We just don't eat a lot of it. As we're in the countryside we have made contacts with local farmers to buy free range pork and lamb.
We don't think it's wise to live so frugally that we don't enjoy life now, because we might not live to see retirement, or might get sick.
We each have about 40k in our pensions, though I've not paid into mine for two years. I've got my pension investment stream set to "adventurous" for now.
Our plan is to focus on paying off the mortgage as quickly as possible, as well as investing in the house so that it's as low cost to run as possible in the future. Solar panels, insulation, that sort of thing. It's very sunny here so return on investment with solar is excellent.
As soon as my income has built up I plan to start paying into my pension again. Any other excess between us will be divided between mortgage overpayments and house renovation / solar infrastructure for now.
Does this all seem wise, or should we also be looking at other investments at this stage? Neither of us knows anything about investing.