Hello
My friend asked if I could get some advice here. She's recently split with her ex husband and is having a UC dilemma. They have 2 DC under 6 and she works 23 hours a week (pandemic aside). Her husband had a job but lost it due to Covid. He always had a poor work ethic and doesn't want to get another job (I appreciate that the economy is crap right now but in general). He does have some health problems and received standard daily living PIP but not LCWRA which he definitely wouldn't get. When they worked out their finances separately, she agreed to give him £200 a month to help him as he will watch the DC whilst she works, however she will still be having them 4 full days and evenings and 6/7 nights a week. To clarify, he doesn't want to work even if he didn't have to watch them and will happily sponge/ have nothing so really it's her helping him in a way. However, he will not be able to afford his bills (she's not asking for maintenance) and said she needs to put the youngest one on his UC claim otherwise he doesn't know what to do. He said if she doesn't then he will take legal action because he can't afford to live. However, whilst then child element is only £30 more then the £200 she's giving him, it's a lot of money to her right now. What should she do and what arrangement will be best for all of them? TIA.