Your plans sound similar to mine @WombatChocolate - I have just given notice to finish in the spring, just after my 58th birthday, but DH (a year younger) will carry on for at least another year.
I will effectively live on his earnings whilst he is still working, but between us we have significant savings in ISAs, SIPPs and shares, some of which came from my inheritance and a work share payout a few years ago, so I won’t feel guilty not earning whilst he does!
I have a small DB pension that pays out at 60, another which will pay out without reduction at 60, due to that being the retirement age when I paid into it but grows at about 8% if left. I will aim to take that by 62/63, depending on when DH finishes.
I also have a frozen DB pension from my current employer, which will be reduced if I take before 65, but recent advise I took was that the reduction would be relatively small compared to the advantage of having that money for an extra 2 or 3 yrs, so maybe also take that at 62/63.
I also have a DC pension from current employer.
DH has no DB pensions as has been primarily self employed but has a couple of DC pensions and, as mentioned earlier, money in ISA, shares and SIPP.
Once I am taking all my DB pensions and we both get the state pension, I think we will be getting around 25k income, which we will easily live on day to day then use the savings and drawdown to fund holidays, cars etc.
We are mortgage free and have young adult children, who (whilst not yet fully independent) have got inheritances of their own which are invested and will significantly help them onto the housing ladder.