After doing lots of reading on these boards and moneysaving forums I finally contacted PayPlan. It was either them or Stepchange. They have been amazing, non judgemental and efficient.
My debts had been secretly increasing and I had to bite the bullet and tell DH when he was furloughed. Tough times but he has been supportive throughout.
I had 6 credit cards, a loan and an overdraft along with 2 catalogues! The interest in black and white made me feel sick! I am sad my credit is messed up for years but we are happy in our home so don't want any finance ever again.
I'm nervous about the letters and phone calls as I have never defaulted on anything before! Luckily PayPlan have a list of all the different types of letters and how to deal with them.
Anyone worrying about debt I definitely reccomend PayPlan.