We're relocating due to oh changing job in September, he had been on furlough since April in his previous job and we took a 3 month mortgage break. Sold our house, got a mortgage agreement in principal from our existing lender, were completely honest about the whole situation but were told it shouldn't be a problem as we're existing customers and we found somewhere to buy. It took weeks to get an appointment with our building society to make the mortgage application and now we've done it they've declined us saying we have to wait 3 months since the end of our mortgage break and 3 months since oh started new job even if we only borrow the same amount as our current mortgage. We haven't told our estate agents yet and our buyers are already being massively unreasonable wanting to move immediately and are threatening to pull out so not sure how long we can drag it all out. We're still in the fixed mortgage term so will have to pay the early repayment fee if we sell without buying. Is there anything we can do to avoid the early repayment fee given that they are refusing to port our existing mortgage?