Ill try to keep this short and to the point.
Been with my partner for 13 years, we are not married. We have one child and another on the way. Things are not good, and haven't been for a while.
We have lived together in this property since 2017. It is owned by me. His name is not on the mortgage, nor the deeds. I paid the deposit for the property myself. Due to our financial set up all the bills i.e Council tax, gas, etc come out of my bank and out of my wage. The weekly food shop is the only household expense that comes out of his. We use the remainder of his wage as savings. So basically all savings are in his name.
If we were to split where do I stand in regards to the house? Is it mine? Is he entitled to anything? Would I need to sell it and give him half?
Just to add a bit of back story - I dont want to split, I love him, I adore him. However he pays me zero attention, the only time we actually have had any sort of physical relationship in the past few years is when we decided to try for a baby again. I realised recently that I've been blind to the fact hes clearly not attracted to me. I've recently discovered that he frequently uses porn sites, however he turns down my invites for any physical activity with me and says he's tired etc. I walked in the living room the other morning early around 2am (after again trying to initiate sex previously the night before) and he was well, pleasuring himself quite happily with whatever was on his screen. I have zero issue with porn, I have an issue with the fact he won't even hug or kiss me.
Any help greatly appreciated.