Hello
We're currently looking for a financial advisor to speak to about this (as are my husband's parents) but any help would be useful in the meantime!
My husband's parents have offered to help us with a house deposit. It would be a big sum of money, about 80k, along with our deposit of about 40k and a mortgage of around 120k.
When we started discussing it initially they thought it would work as a sort of loan, so we would pay them a small amount per month to help them with their retirement. We spoke to some mortgage brokers who said generally mortgage companies don't accept this, so it would need to be a no-strings-attached gift. But if we decided somewhere down the line that we wants to pay some of it back, or just to help them with money in general, then that would be fine and legal.
However, if it's a gift then there's the worry of inheritance tax. His parents are married and both in their early 70s. If his dad were to die in the next 7 years, would we have to pay inheritance tax on the gift (on the sliding scale)? Or would we be exempt because it's joint money? Would we only have to pay if they both died in the next 7 years?
When they both die he will also be inheriting (split with his sibling) their house and the rest of their estate which is over 325k. Could the inheritance tax come out of the house sale rather than the gift? We are all worried that if his dad/both parents died we'd have to find 30 grand out of nowhere, immediately.
Sorry if any of this is really obvious, we are both crap at this stuff! Also apologies that it's so morbid talking about them dying but we all want to make sure we've explored every eventuality.
Thank you