Last night i found out dh owes £11,500...................

[SleeplessInTheStaceym11House]

............wtf do we do????

KD73, well all i buy my kids is second hand, xmas and bdays (oct and nov) have been done on £20 for each (for both xmas and bday) and we dont buy foods unless staple foods (no biscuits etc)

dh is now taking pasta/sandwichs to work and i barely eat anymore.

will look at moneysavingexpert thanks!

Sleepless, it sounds like you are doing everything you can. Check out the Money Expert and contact Citizens Advice Bureau who will provide guidance to you and your family to reduce debt.

Good luck

Sleepless, don't go without food and pack him a lunch up. Eat the lunch yourself, or at least eat half of it.

escape from, im just not bothered about eating atm. i still have dinner or dd asks why im not eating but dunno aboutthe rest. will try to eat i suppose!