Hi my DF passed away last year and yesterday I received a lump sum of £42k from a death benefit connected to his pension. No tax was paid to HMRC prior to this due to my father's age and other conditions however I understand that I will need to pay them a large chunk as this counts as income. I called them yesterday to discuss and to ask if I could just give them a one-off payment however the man told me that they hadn't yet received notification of me receiving this so couldn't do anything at the present time.
I asked if there would be an option to just transfer, write a cheque or whatever it is I need to do but I felt he was being a bit evasive regards this and was talking about my tax code probably changing etc and would need to wait til an end of financial year letter is issued. I don't earn a great deal so if I were to pay this back from my wage each month it could potentially take years. Is there anyone in the know who can reassure me on this please? I would prefer to just give them the money and move on, not have it hanging over me until I am picking up my own pension!