1058 remaining each month - for starters do you actually have that leftover each month? Check your bank statements
I know you said you’re not looking to reduce outgoings BUT you have debt to pay off and a wedding to pay for so it seems silly to pay more for things if you don’t need to. Especially if you’d still be getting the same thing for a lower amount.
Monthly Expenditure:
Mortgage 500
Car HP 341.32 (ridiculous I know! It’ll be paid off soon) - I know you’ve noted it’s high but how?!
Council Tax 134
Gas/Electric 93 - do you shop around regularly to keep as low as possible? Reduce usage where possible?
Kids Club A 32
Life/Mortgage Insurance 29.37 - again have you shopped around?
TV Licence 12.83 - mines gone up to £13.20 hasn’t everyone’s?
Mobiles for two adults 35 - assume this is phones AND call plans? When do the contracts run out? If call plans only there are many cheaper plans out there, combine with properly planned use like only downloading stuff at home on WiFi and you can reduce this to as little as £7.50 per month each. Have you insurance for the phones? It’s the one thing I consider worth spending a little extra on to get a good one.
Home Insurance 10.90 - shopped around?
Pet Insurance 12.46 - shopped around?
Broadband 28 - I’m 18.99 for this who are you with?
Now TV 10.29 - must admit this is an area I also spend on as I have amazon prime AND Netflix but I’m housebound so it’s my one pleasure and helps my anxiety
Spotify 9.99 - never felt the need to go premium on this I don’t mind the ads. Also I like listening to radio do you ever listen that way? I also need to take advantage of prime music which I haven’t got around to yet
School 20
Childcare 80
Coffee 20 - seems cheap if you’re a coffee on the go person is it what you’re actually spending though?
Total = £1369.16
Weekly Expeniture (monthly amount):
Food 325 - would need to know family size for this one
Fuel 195 - tough to call as depends on work location etc
Kids Club B 16.5
Kids Club C 11
Entertainment 100 - again is this what you’re actually spending, it’s one many people underestimate
Total = £647.5
Annual Expenditure (monthly amount):
Christmas 83 - again family size? You might make savings by actually buying certain items in sales rather than saving to buy in nov/Dec when there are rarely sales on
MOT 41.67
School Uniform 300 - I hope you’re not spending this much a month that’s a hell of a lot! Ah £25 per month seems more reasonable.
Birthdays 41.66 - again family size?
Kids Club D 18 - why so many different kids clubs?
Car Insurance 41.67 - do you shop around? Implement things that can reduce?
Holidays 100 - is this for honeymoon or do you always have holidays? I would say this is very much a luxury at least until the debt paid off
Haircuts 30 - every month? I’ve cut my own and dds hair for years but occasionally treat to a professional tidy up
Clothes 50 - again family size?
Total = £431.01
What type of wedding are you thinking of? What’s the family dynamics there? I used to work in the industry and it’s entirely possible to have a fun, beautiful day without spending a fortune but no of guests definitely a factor.