Its ok @outreach29. My apologies too that I took it in the wrong context. I agree it is hard to believe, and even harder to accept when you see it happening.
We have a very split family. One side is very hard working, we don’t earn great salaries but have always worked for everything we have and if we have ever fell on hard times we have never been entitled to any help. I remember when I still lived at home. My dad was made redundant, my mom was ill, and they were entitled to absolutely nothing. They even battled with their insurance provider to get them to pay out on their policy that they had been paying into for years to cover them in such situations. My parents now have very bad mobility issues but are both told they will need to work until retirement as they wont be entitled to any help. It is very unfair.
The other side of my family are as I have explained. And as nasty as it sounds scroungers. Constantly looking to see how they can qualify for more money. How can we not get angry at hearing how easy they have it when we struggle every month. It just seems so unfair. It would never make me want to be anything like them but it does make you wonder why they would ever consider working when they have it so easy.
I have nothing against anyone claiming any benefits or help. The vast majority are entitled and deserving and use they money to support themselves/family with life’s necessities. It is when you see the other side (and unfortunately it is too close to home and shameful that it is someone in my family (not close family may I add)), and realise how unfair it is.
She recently moved into a highly sought after area, with a very high price tag, council tax each money is shocking, however only has to pay £60 a month towards it. Now I live in a small 2 bed, lower band property and I pay nearly double that and that’s single occupancy. She has also never ever paid her water bill and is quite proud to admit that.
Everyone is right though. These things have to catch up with these people at some point