I never used to borrow at all but since a couple of years ago when DS1's father left, I have been overspending.
I reached the limit about a year ago (4.5 grand) and consolidated it into a loan, which I'm now paying off monthly.
They told me my overdraft would be reduced to 600, I kept to it and managed to accumulate a reasonable balance in my account over a few months. However then they told me (by accident) that I did still have the original limit, and since then it's spiralled again as though knowing I 'can' spend, has made me very reckless - I've also been pregnant till recently and have been buying baby stuff, but it isn't just that.
I'm near the limit again and cannot be sure if I could afford the loan payments if I consolidated again - so I'm resigned to paying off the overdraft at about 19%.
Is there another way, eg. getting a credit card and using that to pay the O/D off? Or is that impossible? I've never had a credit card and now I know why...can't trust myself!!
Thanks for any tips, am being very frugal as we speak ...I know if I'm careful and stop going on ebay I can gradually do it...I hope