I'm 40 but when I was late teens/early 20's I thought nothing of getting loans and credit cards which got me into some trouble. I eventually sorted most of it but when I met and moved in with my now husband I still had some hanging over me, about £1000 worth on a couple of credit cards and a Next account which he paid off. He asked me if that was it and I said yes when it wasn't, I was just embarrassed. The truth was I still had a loan that I had taken out when I was 22. The loan was from a company called Gus Finance but I stopped paying it before I met dh and it was taken over by Moorcroft Debt Recovery. I'm 40 now and I'm still paying this goddamn loan 😫 My husband knows nothing about it but it was picked up on last year when we were trying to get a new mortgage and the direct debit was on my bank statement, I lied and said I paid it for my Sister and she gives me the cash. It's in my old name and the address on the account is my best friends address so isn't connected to our house at all. I need to sort this loan out, it was for £6000 but after nearly 20 years they tell me I still owe £8000 and will accept £4000 as a settlement which I don't have. Is there anything I can do? My husband is lovely but he will be so pissed off that I have lied about this, we have been together for 14 years.
Does anyone know where I can get help/advice about this? I currently pay £70 per month which is so difficult to keep secret and I need it gone from my bank statements because we want to move in two years and will need a new mortgage.
Any help or advice would be great, I'm just really stressed over the whole thing now.