Im childfree by choice. Which means that back in the mid 90s when tax credits were only available to people WITH children and pre minimum wage i was having to apply for jobs that were paying £1 to £1.50 an hour.
DH and i as a working age couple with no kids would have been in a situation where the job like this would have paid the rent and NOTHING ELSE. Thank God the sexline office job came along when it did or we would have been fucked. Instead i got to pretend to fuck other men over the phone and it was the best paid job i ever had. Full time nights . DH had a job in a supermarket for a few hours a week which was all he could manage until they retired him on grounds of ILL HEALTH in 2004
The massive heart attack where he died for a short while and his heart was restarted with a defibrilator came in 2006 and left him with damage to his memory which has to be kept an eye on. He has ischemic heart disease and COPD (emphysema)
He was driving when the heart attack started and we were coming back from town He managed to park the car and i helped him upstairs and as i did this i knew it was more than very bad indigestion and by the time the ambulance got here he was unconcious. He has no memory of this or his nine days in hospital even though for some of that time he was concious and behaving erratically.
I think the way single parents are treated on UC IS unfair Ive spent a bloody lot of time on here standing up for single parents Im childfree by choice so it does not affect me but i am also a feminist so i will continue to do so despite this experience.a
Im just gobsmacked at your lack of understanding especially as you are ill yourself.
Just stunned!