My FIL is 84 years old and has been disabled for the last 30 years. MIL has been his carer over the last few years as his health has gone worse and he now totally relies on her.
They have had some help from carerssince FIL came out of hospital and were promised this would be for six weeks but they got only 10 days before they were told that they were being handed over to the private sector and would be assesed financially to see if they would have to pay for all of the help from the carers or pay a small fixed fee.
The thing is if you have over £21,000 in the bank you pay
You dont have to declare any financial details if you dont want to but if you refuse to give details of your finances can they check how much money you have got without you knowing or your permission?
Any advice welcome please