I can't find a definitive answer for this online, I wonder if anyone has experience.
Ex pays child maintenance for DC, it is on a private arrangement. He pays £100 a month. He's retired and on a private pension of at least 50k. He's not yet state pension age.
He's remarried, his wife has 2 DCs which he supports. They get careers allowance for one of her DCs which is paid to Ex (not wife).
Our DC is a teenager and the maintenance arrangement has not changed since we split a decade ago.
I approached ex recently as DC has asked to go on an expensive school trip, and to ask if he'd be able to make a contribution. We are struggling financially, he to my knowledge is not. His attitude was that he's paying his maintenance end of.
I pointed out that his maintenance contributions were probably far below what the CSA would assess him for, and although I felt it a fair amount to pay, maybe a little flexibility would be appreciated for things like this. His response was that because he is getting careers allowance for his DSD if I ever decided to challenge what he was paying it would go down, and what he was paying was out of goodwill!
Anyhow a look at the gov. calculator shows he should be paying about £300 a month, but as soon as you tick the box for careers allowance it goes down to £28 a month! Careers allowance is only paid to people with an income under £100 ish per week, but this apparently doesn't include private pensions so he still gets it. Maybe ex is being a nice guy after all, and I should consider myself lucky to get anything for DC 😮.
Anyone any experience of this? Surely it can't be correct that someone with 4k a month income only has to pay £28 for their child?