Hi sorry to be stupid but I'm really confused and the girl on the phone at HMRC has just confused me even more.
We've got 2 kids, both DH and I work full time and are both just below 50k each gross so have always been fine for the threshold. I get the standard 136.50 pm child benefit which is all I get as 'my' £ each month, everything else goes into the bills, kids, mortgage, food yada yada.
For the first time this year, DH has been in a job that also pays commission. These are not guaranteed and vary massively month by month, year on year. In this year just gone though he's had about 6k of bonus on top of his 50k gross salary...taking him over the threshold.
To my understanding, that means for the next tax year we need to pay back some of my child benefit.
Please can you help me figure out:
a) how to work out how much to pay back as I think it's only a proportion, not the entire amount
b) when we need to pay it by
c) does it need to be paid as a lump sum or can it be deducted from future child benefit / salary
d) how the heck we manage this going forward assuming DH stays in this job
I know we're very lucky to be in this position (although where we live in the South East it doesn't go far, believe me!) but I really do wish they just automatically deducted it from what I get instead of making us figure it out and have to pay back a huge lump sum I may not have...