I'm actually quite embarrassed to be asking this 
I've been advised we could qualify for some help with our nursery fees. Household income of 39k, me working part time while retraining, and DH full time. Really struggling to get by, hence why we're applying just to see.
The site doesn't recognise either of our identities
and also wants to us to book interviews, which is fine, I just feel guilty wasting everyone's time if there's no chance we'll qualify!