We bought our house 11 years ago and I paid for everything, the deposit, doing it up, everything. I had a good job and had saved a lot. DP had nothing.
FastForward and here we are 2 kids later. I was made redundant and that money also went toward the house whilst I was also looking after the kids . I later became a childminder. DP was self employed but unbeknown to me, getting into debt as he doesn't seem to know £2+£2 doesn't equal £10 which has just been revealed to me as 40k. Its either bankruptcy which HMRC are pressing for and us maybe losing the house or we pay it off by remortgaging.
I'm bloody furious about it all. I scrimp and save as it is and now we have more mortgage we can't really afford.
I want to the fact that I have paid all the money into the house reflected in the ownership so that if we broke up when I get the strength to do it I get back what I put in.
I phoned CAB and they told me to see a solicitor, which is £250 per hour. I don't have that kind of money but can try and save and coble it together. I can get the first half hour free. So to lessen the cost, I'm trying to work out what I can by myself.
So I put £50k into the house which cost £260k. DP's debt is 40k. What is a fair split?
DP will agree to it as he knows he had messed up. I want to present a plan.
I think need to get a form completed for the land registry.
Any advice please