Ok so 2 years ago my partner got a new phone and number and I got woken one night to a Skype call from a foreign girl. He said he had no idea who it was a denied having a Skype account. Few months later a £5000 phone bill from Vodafone arrived with roaming charges from Romania. He assures me his sim got cloned. I accused him of mailing old phone etc to Romania. Stupidly I believed all this all while being heavily pregnant with our 2nd child. He had hidden the huge bill for months from me and only admitted to it when I opened one of his letters. From then on I've had major trust issues and he assures me he will tell me everything about finances etc. Fast forward to present. He pays the council tax bill he assured me direct debits set up. Last week the council's debt collectors hand delivered our court summary warrant for non payment. Every month i ask him and he tells me everything's fine. I wrote this post for people's thoughts of what I should do. But not it's written is clear to me I can't trust him anymore at all and there's no point if there's no trust. 13 years together down the pan cause of his stupid lies. Our eldest is 8 and autistic this really isn't fair on him or me and our youngest child. Im so angry at the devastation this is going to have on out eldest and I can't bear how our eldest is going to take the devastating effect it's going to have on him 