I'm trying (in vain) to get in touch with CAB but have been worrying myself about it so thought I'd try here. I'm a widowed parent to two children. Dh died just before I had the youngest. I received the bereavement lump sum and am still receiving the monthly allowance. I noticed I haven't been paid my child tax credits since dh died and they have said it's because I'm on income support and I'll only get it of I change to universal credit (no reimbursement despite having to use my bereavement money to top up) I had the opportunity to change to UC but the call handler at the time steered me away from it by saying without saying it'd not be the best idea. I've heard bad things about UC and I'm worried what it will mean for me.
DD1 is 2 and and DD2 is months. I'm currently not working as I was a SAHM when DH was alive. I have £8000 savings but I had earmarked this for Dhs headstone, car costs and was going to set up an ISA for each child. I know you get money knocked off for anything over £6000 and it says if it looks like you've tried to get rid of money to enable yourself to get more benefits then they will still knock the money off your benefits. I'm worried that the nest egg I tried to keep for the kids etc will affect my benefits.
Also I know I'll be going back to work sooner than I had planned as a SAHM but will I be expected to find work as soon as I start UC? I don't even know where to start regarding child care and figuring out how to afford it all. Also I've had mixed advice regarding whether me receiving my bereavement payment will have an effect on my UC payment.
I know I have been lucky to have stayed looking. after my kids for so long without having to work. I'd feel better if someone could give me an idea of what to expect e.g.when I'll need to start looking for work. I'm not used to this feeling of financial insecurity and I'm worried I'll be pushed into work where I'll be struggling financially and the knock on effect it may have. O don't know whether all the UC talk is scaremongering but I'm tying myself in knots thinking about it and my reservations about going on UC mean I'm not receiving my tax credits.
Sorry for the rambling, any advice appreciated 