Hi,
I’m after some advice please regarding my dad and UC. I am so stressed with him, he just has no clue what he’s doing and is relying heavily on me to sort it for him. I’m currently undergoing IVF number 3 and also nursing my best mate through stage 4 cancer, as well as looking after her son multiple times a week. I am at my wits end and don’t know what else I can do to help him?!
He is in trouble with his housing trust regarding HB he was receiving that he apparently shouldn’t have been. I’ve paid £150 for a solicitor to represent him in Court over this (Right now £150 is a lot of money to me as i’ve just had to pay for IVF again, which has crippled me)
He has just been awarded PIP - full amount for both personal care and mobility. He’s 63 in October and suffers with depression, severe bronchial problems, issues with his mobility because of his back, and an injury he sustained to his arms years ago (I don’t know the medical terms for his issues, he can never relay the info to me as he’s always confused)
He is on UC (moved from ESA) The last ESA assessment he had, he scored no points
He has appealed it and is awaiting his decision. Can someone explain to me - is ESA now replaced by UC? I have access to his UC account but don’t bloody understand it? They are hounding him on it to look for work 35 hours a week... surely there’s another group he should be in? He can barely string a sentence together and is incredibly unwell, he can hardly walk lately.
I’ve heard something about a UC/ESA support group. How can he apply to get in this? He has got me demented to figure it all out for him and I really am struggling with it all, with everything else I have going on. Can anyone offer me any advice and confirm what group he is in to me? I don’t understand it at all. I just don’t want him to be sanctioned for not completing tasks etc... but he genuinely doesn’t know how.
Thanks in advance.