Background story- Have recently divorced husband following his cheating. He's now living with OW.
Prior to our split, we had been renting for about 10 years so no property to divide. Have 3 DCs, 2 living with me, 3rd has her own place with BF.
Came away from divorce with just my share of husbands pension (£500k) which had to be transferred into a pension I had to set up ready.
I work for NhS and once I've paid the rent and all bills I'm not in a position to save much towards a deposit for my own home. Ex's contribution just £150 a month which covers DDs train fare to college. He was made redundant 10 months after we split and chose to retrain as a personal trainer and so income at present less than previously.
I've been told I'm unable to withdraw any money from new pension until I'm 55 which is 6 years away. My dad seems to think I should ask Bank if possible to get a mortgage with borrowing against my pension (ie pension as security) knowing I could pay mortgage off in 6 years.
Is this possible? Is it worth asking as I don't think I could. I'm just sick of living in somebody else's house.