I'm sure this kind of thing has been asked many times, but a quick search has not found any threads more recent than 2010, so I thought I would ask again...
I am a SAHM mum, as of September last year. I used to work full time until our first child was born in 2011, then went back to work part-time. Ever since that maternity leave, I have stopped paying into my private pension. Since then, I have been paying into a work pension, although not a huge sum due to only working part time, but that of course stopped last September when I gave up work completely.
I am currently pregnant, and unlikely to return to work until this child starts primary school.
My husband is now on a far higher salary than I was on when working full time. At the time I went part time, we were earning roughly the same. He has been paying into a work pension scheme the whole time (I'm not sure how much).
I am now starting to feel a bit vulnerable, and determined to protect myself financially should anything bad happen, e.g. divorce or death of DH. What are your experiences/advice on this?
My gut feeling is that we need to consult an IFA, work out what DH would get paid upon retirement, and start paying into a private pension for me again from our joint family income, so that I could achieve a similar pension. I understand that there are certain rules that apply if a marriage breaks up to allow a spouse to claim on their partner's pension, but I would prefer to be truly financially independent should that situation ever occur.
Advice/thoughts/experiences welcome, thanks.