I'm not sure if this is the right section or even what I'm asking is possible but I'm not seeing mortgage broker for a couple of weeks so grateful for anyone with knowledge or advice.
Basically we have a 14 month old ds and another due in a few weeks so when I return to work next year we are looking at nursery fees of between 1500-1800 a month. We hadn't budgeted for second baby it was a bit of a surprise albeit a welcome one but it does mean things are going to be tight for the next couple of years.
I can't give up work as dp doesn't make enough to cover household bills but earns too much for us to claim any benefits so my salary is very much needed.
We have around 60k equity in our house and it would be good to free some of this up so one option we are considering is buying a new build home on the help to buy scheme so we only have to pay 5% deposit which would free up equity to cover nursery fees.
We can't remortgage as the redemption fee is too large and we already took out additional borrowing to finish buildin work so ulikely we can borrow more.
Otherwise we are looking at getting into a fair amount of debt next year and I really don't want to start taking out loans or using credit cards to cover us but at the same time thinking it's only for 2-3 years then childcare costs drop dramatically.
Thanks if you're still reading any thoughts on what we should do gratefully received!