There is a strip of land at the bottom of our garden which was part of an alleyway running around to the road which presumably used to be used by binmen etc. Prior to us moving here (we've lived here 13 1/2 yrs) this land was incorporated into our garden by both our predecessors and the neighbours at the time. Fences were erected and although gates were left in, the gates have never been used as far as we can ascertain. As our property was empty for 5 years before we moved in, another neighbour estimates the land was incorporated around 20-25 years ago at least. In fact, the previous neighbours have planted trees and shrubs across the gate between our properties, and the neighbour prior to that had her well-established rose garden in the same spot, which demonstrates it's not been actively used or required.
Our neighbour, who has the other incorporated garden, recently moved in, and now wants to re-establish access over our garden to the alleyway, which now starts off at the end of our garden and runs around to the road. Both our deeds have the right of access in them, and this is the nub of the problem.
Our solicitor advises that, as the right has not been exercised by anyone for a period of time, that the right of access has therefore been forfeited. Our neighbour's solicitor advises the opposite, that a right exists indefinitely whether it's used or not.
We don't want to fall out with our neighbour, but equally we don't want to have her, and any subsequent owners, having access to our garden. We also don't want to have huge legal bills - I've just paid £300 to our solicitor to get this far - but I really just want to find out how to establish the fact and which solicitor is right?
Can anyone help please?