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Deceased persons bank account

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PoloPrincess · 09/02/2018 22:09

What do I do if I know someone is using a deceased persons bank account to hide money?
Who do I report it to as it has already been reported to the bank and they've chosen to ignore my concerns and have kept the account open.
This isn't right is it? Is it legal? It's definately morally wrong though surely.

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endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 22:57

If you google "what to do when someone dies" all the correct procedures are on the government website.

PoloPrincess · 09/02/2018 22:58

My stbxh dealt with finances, he has older siblings, the oldest was next of kin. They arranged the funeral together. I doubt very much that they know about this bank account.

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endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 23:00

Hmm.
I hope they informed DWP.
To continue claiming pension or benefits of the deceased is a serious crime.

PoloPrincess · 09/02/2018 23:09

I'm pretty certain that no benefits are being claimed in her name.

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PoloPrincess · 09/02/2018 23:15

He's claiming benifits in his name and that gets paid into one of his bank accounts not his mum's. But he is also working, not earning a huge amount but he's definitely hiding it and he maybe hiding it in mil's account.

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endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 23:19

Is it possible that he had POA or that the account was in joint names?
Either of those would have to be in place for him to use the account.

endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 23:22

I can pay money into a family member's account, but I cant take any out, unless I have access to passwords and online banking information. Which, of course, I don't, because that would be fraud.

PoloPrincess · 09/02/2018 23:23

I have found evidence today, it's solely in her name.

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endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 23:24

It does sound suspicious.

PoloPrincess · 09/02/2018 23:25

And a letter arrived today in her name. I've not opened it but my Miss Marple skills tells me it's a new bank card. I'm going to take it back to the bank.

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endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 23:28

Maybe take it back with the death certificate.
If you just take the card back they still wont act on it.
They cannot take action on anything except a legal death certificate.

endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 23:29

He is probably withdrawing cash using the card.
Get the certificate asap.

endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 23:31

If you post the certificate he need not know it was you.

endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 23:32

If she died 6 years ago and the bank are still sending her cards, he is definitely up to no good.

endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 23:34

When you send the certificate, include the sort code and account number.

PoloPrincess · 09/02/2018 23:35

Thank you endoftheline.
Yes he's definately up to no good in more ways than anyone could possibly imagine.

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endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 23:36

He is likely to be in a heap of trouble by the sound of things.

PoloPrincess · 09/02/2018 23:49

I hope so. But on the other hand i just want him to do the right thing and provide a little bit of money for our son and be a good dad.

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endofthelinefinally · 09/02/2018 23:55

It might be worth posting in the legal section. Just to make sure you handle this in the best way.

Worldsworstcook · 10/02/2018 09:00

Ah ..... the righteous rage of a STBeW. Leave him to it. Unless you're bothered he's hiding the money from you so he doesn't have to share it?

In which case you wouldn't be bothered about morals as much as getting what you think should be yours!

TheRebel · 10/02/2018 23:10

Most banks don’t require a death certificate to freeze the account, which bank is it?
Call their bereavement department and tell them she’s passed away, they will freeze the account and then wait for the death certificate before they close the account. Most banks will allow anyone to freeze the account, sometimes people who have no next of kin end up having hospital admin or funeral directors call to freeze the account.

MiniMum97 · 10/02/2018 23:27

Why do you care. Leave him to it. You've told the bank. With AML/fraud laws as they are its v unlikely they are just ignoring it. Your concern should be ensuring you maintain your relationship with him as much as possible. And that he is in a strong financial position. for sake if you and your child.

Mosaic123 · 11/02/2018 09:48

But why should taxpayers be supporting his lifestyle of working and claiming benefits?

PoloPrincess · 11/02/2018 10:36

mosaic123 exactly. Not just the tax payer either but also me (I am a tax payer so i loose twice here). Stbxh lives in my house with me and DS. Stbxh claims he has little money and makes absolutely no contribution to mortgage, bills or towards the car. Not one penny. I'm on my arse financially. The only thing he's bought is 2 school sweaters and polo shirts at a grand total of about £24. he's a sponging lazy bastard who the police describe as squatting in my house.

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Mosaic123 · 11/02/2018 12:50

That's terrible.

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