I have recently separated from my husband.
We had/have one joint account which was used for everything. We each had/have a debit card with the account.
My STBXH now has his own account. His wages are paid into this, he pays his own rent and bills from it.
However, things are becoming nasty between us. As a result he has used his PayPal account, to pay two transactions totalling £100, but he hasn’t switched his PayPal info to his new account. He is saying it was a mistake, however on the same day he paypalled me £50 that he owed me, so it obviously works when he wants it to!
I am furious. He says he’s trying to get it refunded. I know this is bullshit. I now have £1 until Tuesday and 3 kids under 12. They are currently with him until Sunday evening as I am working all of this weekend. I just don’t know what to do. My bank cant help, PayPal can’t help. It’s not the first time he’s done it. I’ve begged him to change his details and he won’t. While he’s still on the account, he can do what he likes.
I’ve asked the bank how I can remove his name, they said we both need to go in and sit down. He keeps saying he’s too busy. I just feel at the end of my tether. Can anyone advise? Thanks.