My 91 year old (very frail and anxious) grandmother is being pressured by her youngest son to borrow increasing amounts of money against the equity in her house whenever he is short of money. She does not want to do this again as she worries about the interest that is building up and that she will become homeless. This week he is putting a lot of pressure on her to take out another 10k.
Does anybody know whether he would have to go through a solicitor to do this and if so if the family were to tell the solicitor that she was being coerced they could refuse to allow it?
If not, any suggestions as to what we could do to stop it. My uncle is very manipulative and my grandmother does whatever he says even though she says taking out equity release in the first place was the worst thing she has ever done.
TIA