Now that my legal separation is sorted, I today received my solicitor's bill (I am in Scotland). This pertained to mainly getting the financials sorted prior to divorce, as well as access arrangements for the children, etc.
I had thought that the total bill came to about two and a half grand (I was originally told it would cost round about that figure), but it has actually totalled double that. I am in a state of absolute shock. I feel so incredibly stupid for not having requested a running tally of the costs as we went along.
My lawyer is aware of my financial situation, that I am a single parent obviously, who is currently out of work, and that I have no means of paying back this huge sum of money.
The letter that accompanied the invoice basically stated that, yes, the total was substantially higher than originally anticipated, but that this was because of my husband's 'rather entrenched position in connection with certain matters'.
Irony is that she couldn't have asked for an easier and more amenable client than me, as it's not in my nature to be difficult, and I simply wanted an end to everything.
Yes, I have been incredibly naive and stupid, but it would seem unethical to whack me with a huge bill at the end, with no prior warning.
Any advice on how to deal with this? I have no issue with paying it up, but it will take me years, presumably with interest added on.
I could cry.
Thanks.