After a tricky first 18 months of our relationship finance wise ( motorbike accident, change of jobs etc) my dp and I finally feel in a stable positive place.
Our ultimate goal in the next 2 years is to buy a house. But also be more stable month to month with money so we've decided on
A Lisa each maxed out each month
Emergency fund - end goal 3 months safety net
Christmas pot
Birthday pot - lots of neices/nephews etc
The idea is to have a steady flow of money in the joint account for rent bills food etc and then pots for the unexpected/expected life expenses.
What others do people have ? Holiday pot ? Mad money ? Thatch replacement lol ? Or do you do it completely differently ?