Name changed due to the sensitive nature of this topic.
My husband and I live in a mortgaged house, and have worked diligently to pay down the mortgage. Mid next year we will have 20k outstanding to pay - however, this will all be my debt as my husband contributed more to the deposit. We earn similar salaries so this seems fair.
Usually I could pay this down in one year - I wanted to just extend from 2018 to 2019. But our provider will not extend our mortgage on the current term for only one year (they'll make it two years or up the interest rate), and my husband thinks that refinancing with another provider will be too much effort, and doesn't want me to pay the establishment costs for a new mortgage (about 700 pounds). The interest rates quoted are decent.
He instead thinks I should borrow the money from his father, which wouldn't involve any interest or arrangement costs. I really don't like the sound of borrowing from family - he is a nice person but I don't want to feel indebted to someone or have to accept 'charity' when I earn a perfectly good salary.
What do people do when their mortgage gets down to a small amount? Surely it is normal and acceptable to take out a new mortgage rather than asking for a leg up from a parent?
Is there another way to avoid mortgage arrangement fees? Is it possible to negotiate these?
Thank you and sorry if I should understand how this all works.