Before I explain this isn't a dig at anyone so there's no need for any hostility.
DH brings home 1700-2000 a month which is enough for us to pay rent/bills food and basics etc but not enough for a car/holidays things like that. But they are treats rather than necessities I think? We plan to save for holiday next year.
I'm a SAHM, our youngest is 1 and we have a baby due October.
We're happy and once the kids are all at school the plan is for me to start working again.
Just trying to avoid drip feeding.
We are able to apply for tax credits, obviously more money is nice, we don't own our house or anything and obviously are not well off but we both feel that if we are able to cope without it then maybe we shouldn't apply?
It has come up in conversation with different people over the years, more so lately. Possibly because I don't work and we will have 4dc by Christmas I think the assumption is that we're on benefits and I don't know why but at least round here people seem to be struggling financially (which means different things to different families) our area is very mixed financially and it has lead to some probing questions about what money you get and from where.
It seems that most people who can claim, do. People who do haven't really understood why we don't. I was on income support as a single parent before I met DH and there were definitely times I was judged for it so maybe that's why I'm reluctant, I started work at 14 so am not work shy or anything and DH has never been on benefits, we are in our early 30s now.
Is it sensible for us to not take money that we don't absolutely need, or are we being odd and missing out for no reason?