She's been married for nearly 19 yrs.
Her husband said he wanted out about a yr ago now.He had an affair.
She desperately tried to get him to go to counselling but in the end they are splitting up.
They have 3 dc's 18-17 and 15yrs,all still in full time education.
They decided they wnated to do it through mediation.
They agreed on her getting equity of home about £400,000.She wouldn't claim on any of his pension/future earnings.He is hospital consultant.
Now he has said he wants to decrease the child maintenance from £2000 to £1000/month and to reduce the deal of her getting the full equity .
I think she should see a solicitor.She's at rock bottom,and says she can't face the legal battles that would ensue.
How much in legal fees will she have to pay?
If you've been in this situation should I just shut up and listen to her? It breaks my heart to see her so low.
What about ab's she says she's got all the symptoms of depression aswell even suicidal thoughts.It is really not like her at all to be like this.
|Sorry this is so long ,thanks for reading it.