We may have the opportunity to buy a house privately but have no idea how to agree a price.
Last year we tried to buy a house in a very competitive area. It went to sealed bids. The winning bid was more than 50% over the asking price - a great deal more than we had offered. It was also £80k more than the survey price, upon which the mortgage is based. I know the estate agents and the seller were very suprised by how much the successful buyer paid.
Then last week we heard that the people who live next door to this house were thinking of selling and we got in touch with them. We went to meet them and see the house and it's lovely, and pretty much identical in style and state to the one we lost out on. They are happy to sell privately to us, but were a bit reticent about naming a price.
So how should we proceed? Presumably they know what their neighbours got, but should we base it on this, just because some mad people paid way over the odds for it? Or should we get it surveyed use that as a starting point?
Any advice from anyone else who has bought or sold privately would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance.