My ExH is retraining (from an unrelated profession) become an accountant.
I have serious concerns about this and don't know how to help.
He is not good with money. During our relationship he has taken out credit cards and loans and my name, taken out at least 30 pay-day loans (Wonga, Satsuma etc.) taken £56,000 of cash from our joint account (he prevented me any access to the statements or accounts and every time I asked how much was in there, he wouldn't answer, or would lie) and allowed our mortgage to bounce repeatedly. I still do not know what he could have spent £56,000 on, or why he needed to take out payday loans, as we were both on good-ish salaries.
I have serious concerns that, with access to other people's money, that he will use this to fund a gambling habit or similar. He is in a debt management plan for his own loans he took out and failed to repay. He has failed to make payments on this too.
I don't know what I can do to stop him stealing other people's money. I'd hate for him to do the same to them as he did to me.
Any advice?