I'm buying a house with DP. We have two children. Not married. I'm putting in 300k deposit from sale of my flat and then we were going to split the expenses 50/50.
Our solicitor has suggested writing up a deed of trust and that if we split I take back my deposit and we split any other equity 50/50. Alternatively we could split the equity based on our contributions, meaning I'd get around 80% of the equity.
We are in London and property prices have shot up (30% in the last 12 months), if this happened again and we separated I'd not be able to afford to buy another property or buy out DP share because my deposit would not have increased in line with the price of the property.
Has anyone had any experience of this?
On the one hand I don't want to be grabby and want us to share our finances/life together, but on the other I'm wary having seen some horrible break ups and given we aren't married I don't have much 'protection'.