Hi, am having a major moral dilemma. Broke up with my 3 yr old boys father year ago whilst in throes of getting a visa to emmigrate to aus. Since we now split up and i wsa main applicant he has to come off the application. I am wiht my new partner, 39 wks pregnant and we have talked abt going (i hate england). But i know my ex will try to oppose it as we would be taking his son with us too. Its so hard. I feel so guilty as my ex has no life other than seeing his son. But then i am like well if i stay here i will be resentful and regret not taking the opportunity. generally my ex and i have a good relationship although this is v contentious at mo. if there was a way i could also get him over to aus to live then i would. I did hear that once my little boy was granted residency (after 2 yrs) he could sponsor his dad to move there. But then i heard the child has to be 18. Does anyone know abt this or have any experience/advice? Also am wondering what chances he has of stopping us taking child out? Was told as i had custody it would be easy enough but not so sure.