AT LAST HE ADMITTED HE DOESNT WANT HER !!!! now what do i do ???????????

[muma3]

omfggggggg

sorry

ex-p (dd1's dad) has just phoned . must of got my number from his mum, anyway ....

he has agreed to let my dddddp adopt her !!! he said he wants us out of his life and he will sign whatever i need him to. he has given me his number and said once i have the paper work he will arrange to meet up and sign it all .

RELIEF !!

this is the best news that i could ever ever ever have.

wont go into things becasue i havent got a long time on comp but to all that know story

fucking fantastic hey ?!?!

what a great xmas it will be

Glad you've got the news you were waiting for!

wow amazing, im not sure exactly waht you have to do but i did hear that if you are married for 1 year you can adopt as a couple for £150.

i'm thinking about doing this when we can afford to get married.........(going to be a long wait i think!)

how old is your dd?

well he hastn had contact for a year and then before that it was always a struggle to get him to see her. i was always about me . never really gave a damn about dd1 just liked the hassle with me really. he has a drink problem and has scared her loads of times. she made the choice to not see him as he got drunk one to many times and then he never phoned called or anything.

about 2/3 months ago i wrote him a letter saying basically " you can have her 2 hours fortnightly but under no circumstances are you to drink etc etc " i never heard a thing .

now this . he is a waste of space and i have been thinking of setting a "mums's for justice" group. i am just so relieved that we can have closure . she doesnt have to have the guilt /stress/upset/ and most of all counsiling any more !!!!

i was rejected by my own mother and know she will find this very hard but over the last year she has been so strong and i know we can get her through this. some people might not agree o this but believe me it is 100% for my beautiful/clever /amazing daughters best interest.

there is a god !!!

our life will change so much . no more walking on egg shells . no more worrying about him knocking on the door pissed . no more sleepless nights when she did stay .

life is just beginning now and i cant stop smiling !!!!!!!

how old is she?
my dd1 is 7 and hasn't seen ex since she was 3mths old. i wouldnt even know where to find him - thats if i wanted to!

she was 9 on 10th nov .

he took me to court when she was 21/2 as he hadnt seen her . he came round one night when she was with his mum and said that him and his mum was going to keep her and that i wont get her back . the court gave me residency order and him parental rights.

i dont know how i can get them reversed??

someone out there must have legal knowledge surely ??

i have the paper work and he wants me to send him hs copy he needs to fill in .

im a bit stuck i need to fill in a part that says "what order are you applying for and i dont know what its called or what to put ??

help needed pronto !!!

pretty please??

dunno but congrats to you and bump!

Congratulations!!! I am not 100% sure but I have some papaer work here that I need to send to the courts to get dds surname changed to my maiden name she has her dads (ex-h) at the mo and he wants nothing to do with her, anyway, My paper work says it may be that you need to apply for the discharge of parental responsibility order? Again I am not 100% so maybe call or go see the CAB tomorrow to be 100%?? Congratulations again!

Could I put 100% a few more times in that post???