Any advice greatly appreciated. Lived in my partners house 12yrs, have 2 children together (7 & 8), he wants me to leave but we've nowhere to go & I don't know anything about benefits. Have always worked FT & whilst he paid mortgage in his name only, I've paid for everything for the kids, including their food! I was made redundant in March due to I'll health & I've lived off redundancy since. When I leave I won't be able to work FT due to school hours/childcare costs but want to work whilst they're at school - all these jobs are v.low pay & I don't know how I'll pay rent, bills etc. Their dad says he won't pay the £400 p/mth the government website suggests he pay so what do I do?
I can afford 1 month private rent & deposit but what happens then? I have redundancy of about £20k left, can I get housing benefit & working tax credit if I have that or do I have to use it all first then hope I get benefits (else we then risk homelessness).
I want to stay local so kids stay at school & near paternal grandparents to whom they're extremely close so they maintain stability through the break up.
Any advice gratefully received, thank you