I'm disabled and expecting to lose my benefits (but not be well enough to work).
My family and an ex-partner are very, very kindly trying to put something together to look after me. But I just can't find anyone to advise how best to do this. Everyone is in their own self-interested silo.
The financial advisor tells me I should ask for a lump sum and invest in stocks and shares.
The mortgage advisor tells me I should buy not one but two BTLs, but he wouldn't actually lend the money as I have no income (no shit, Sherlock).
None of the solicitors will meet me without being paid £100+ for the first meeting and a higher rate thereafter.
However in very brief enquiries over the phone, trusts solicitors want to set up a trust.
And family law /divorce lawyer wants to treat innocent, generous ex-P like the enemy, plus doesn't know anything about the purpose or function of trusts.
Help!