DH and I have been together 27 years and recently ( 10 months ago ) separated . Everyone including us I think thought we'd get back together until recently he found himself a gf and fell in love after 3 weeks !
While I am completely devasted and struggling to ever see a happy future for me and dc at the moment I know found out that his parents have revoked power of attorney which he had .
It was always us that helped them sort out any problems or concerns and at nearly 90 when DH first went to live with them this summer I was glad they had made him poa and I think prob signed the house over to him .
However now he has a gf and doesn't want me back I suppose that would mean I had a claim on the house if his parents did pass away .
Is that why they would revoke it.
As far as I understood if we are separated or probably divorced I would be entitled to none of his future inheritance which is a darn shame as they always told us we'd have a third of the estate and now he will get this alone . I m not being greedy it's just that he never really had a good pension because I did and he always knew I'd share mine and he'd have his parents estate ( they are almost 90 ) . I hope they both live a happy and healthy further many years obviously but would our separating be their way of protecting their sons investment ? He wants half my pension too !
I can understand why they would do it . Otherwise I did wonder if they are a bit disgusted with his mid life behaviour and just don't trust him with the whole thing anymore ! I'll have no claim on his future inheritance anyway but I suppose I would if the house was signed over to him at the point of any financial settlement ?