I am so ashamed 
I am in debt but paying back every penny. I don't know how I've missed this one off my list but I have and now they have texted my dad asking for me to call them.
My Dad is furious that he's been contacted (as am I) and massively pissed off with me (just as we'd got back on a fairly good footing to make it worse).
I don't want to ring them because I can't face the barrage of calls I'll get but I'll have to, I just DO NOT want them texting my family again. FFS are they "allowed" to do that?
I am on the electoral roll so I'm "findable" and contactable. I open all my post and I haven't had anything from them. I've ordered my Credit Reports and there is a very old loan with them which defaulted in 2009.
I'm furious with myself and massively humiliated that my Dad knew about this before I did.
How do I handle this?