dp has some debts which were accrued when he was with his ex. basically she bled him dry, then kicked him out and left him paying off these debts and paying maintenance for their child. he is still paying those debts now, and has borrowed more to pay them as his pay dates have changed and the debt people will not be flexible on his payment dates. he has now got to the point where he cannot borrow any more, and does not have enough to pay his debts. what can i do to help? or find more info etc to help him? i cannot pay the debts as the money i get pays all the household bills, food etc except the rent which he pays. i cannot afford to pay the rent. he is massively stressed, and putting it all on me (although he tries not to, but i ask what is going on) and i have my own stresses to deal with as well.