OK, I'm new here. I could have done with you guys years ago when my daughter was little but that was waaaay before the 'tinternet was invented.
so why am I here now? Well I am still a mum and I have yet to track down a divorceenet and you are women with oomph, get-up-and-go and know-how and I could do with some of all of that because, frankly I don't know where to start.
So here I am, in my late fifties having been dumped by the soon-to-be-ex as he went of with his secretary and pulling myself back up from the floor. Complete review of life is called for and I find that after many years of putting other first what I'd really like to do is go run a cattery.
OK, maybe a little mad catwoman is, but think about it. A new life in a new part of the country where I would self-employed and be able to work until I am too feeble (at which point I would employ young legs to do the hard work) where I would be involved in the local community and meeting like-minded people every day.
Don't think I haven't thought of the downsides, I have given this a lot of time and a lot of thought and I think it is worth my best shot
Now if I had the all funds from selling the house I could probably make it. But I will only have half. I have looked at every source of finance I can think of - banks, crowd-funding, mortgage companies the lot. They like my business plan, but they need more money from me
which is where you come in. My brain is much at the moment and whilst I am doing my best to pull myself together and move on I really, really don't want to miss out on some really obvious form of investment that will get me from zero to heroine.
Before I give up on this and retire to what ever I can pull together, have I missed something, anything which would give this idea legs
Oh and I really need to set up divorceenet for the growing crowd of ladies of 50+ who are becoming single. We're a growth industry looking for support and fellowship