Dsis been having really tough time lately. We lost our dad suddenly, her dh lost his job & their dd is ill. She's in about £40k of debt and has been advised to contact step change & start a debt management plan. Her dh says he doesn't want anyone else dictating how they spend their money, but my understanding is that a set amount will be negotiated to pay off the debts and the rest will be theirs to spend. I know it will affect their credit rating, but I think it's probably already been affected as they've missed a couple if mortgage payments. Hoping someone on here will have some experience of living with a dmp, what's involved and how does a poor credit rating impact on daily finances.