I'll make this as short as I can.
Basically, I live in Shared Ownership house so pay part rent, part mortgage. When I first took over the house, I tried and tried to get a standing order set up (as this is how it works best) to pay the rent and due to total idiot who deals with all the shared ownership properties here, this was never done. Long story. When, after a year of getting no money, he finally wrote to me asking for this money, I wrote a long letter explaining how I tried numerous times to get it sorted and detailed the history of all our calls. It's a long story but it really affected me stress wise and I got ill again (IBS) and I put at the end of this letter that I was unsure how I would be able to pay back the £720 owed. I sent this letter 6½ years ago and never heard back and to be honest, after all this time I'd forgotten all about it (enough other stuff happened in my life).
ANYWAY..........as some of you know, dh lost his job on xmas eve and until very recently, had no job and we've struggled to say the least. Now dh finally has a permanent job and things are on the up but we still have accumlated a lot of debt as a result so we're not all hunky dory just yet. Well, I set up a new standing order for the rent (had cancelled all DD's etc. when he lost job and benefits helped a tiny bit with the rent) the other week but on Monday, I received a letter about the fact that the benefit payments have stopped but they haven't received payment since. I gave confirmation that this is all set up but I queried the arrears on the rent as it should only be between £300-400 and the sheet said £1185. Today got letter confirming the rest of the arrears is due to the problem over 7 years ago.
Soooo..........very worried now. Can't afford to pay the whole lot. Am very very p'd off that they don't bother asking for it after my letter 6½ years ago and then BANG, want the whole lot.
What can I do? Surely they can't just get it back like that when the bloke didn't do his job and chase it all these years ago. Now we're in a mess and can't afford this big lump.
Any advice please???