My sister has suggested to my mother that she should set up an 'enduring power of attorny', so that if anything happens and mother goes gaga, sister can deal with matters, get at her money, etc.
My mother understands the need for this (she is getting on a bit), but would like to make sure that I shared the responsibilty so that, if the worst happens we BOTH know what is happening to mother and her assets.
Mother is going to consult a solicitor in the next couple of weeks, but so we know what to ask....
Can a power of attorney be given to two parties equally, so that 2 signatures are needed for actions?
When does an enduring power actually come into effect? who decides mother is gaga and we need to act for her? or would it just be possible for us to decide to take matters out of her hands (which is what worries her. My sis is quite controlling).
Anything you can tell me would be appreciated.