Dont really know why I am posting this, suppose I am hoping for a bit of moral support. [sad] dp has been acting very strange for the last few months, almost like he's depressed, irritable, grumpy, can't be bothered doing anything, no interest in me whatsoever and putting minimal effort in with the children. I've just put it down to him not having much work on at the moment (he's a contractor) This morning he got a few letters, (he asked me to open them because he is waiting for some information about a job) one of them is a tax bill for £37k [shock][sad] . I had no idea about this, Dp has not mentioned anything about but I am assuming he knew because it looks like this is the letter about the findings of an ongoing investigation into a company he worked for that have been avoiding tax for quite a number of years. I have no idea how we are going to pay this and if he was even going to tell me about it. I haven't spoken to him yet and am not even sure what to say. suppose it explains his moodiness recently. What the hell are we supposed to do now???