If you have recently taken out a mortgage (say in the last 4 years)
We are considering me being a SAHM but we also need to move to a bigger place ( we live in a tiny flat right now which is very easy to afford but is miles too small)
If we move I have to stop work as we can't afford to stay locally so would move nearer dh's work who currently has a really long commute.
Even by moving nearer to dh's work which is a cheaoer area than here we would be doubling our mortgage and cutting our monthly income by a third.
This would make our mortgage over 40% of our monthly income - This seems high to me but dh says it is fairly average but that we are currently well off in that respect.
Is this a normal ratio of mortgage to income on a recent mortgage?